关于人生的一些——楼林对于Quora问答的精选-心理咨询与人生方面

提问1:哪些经验和道理,人们很晚才知道?

回答者1:

1.不要太相信他人,有些人我们过度的信任了。
2.不要对他人过度的友好了(献殷勤也算),人们对莫名的友好感到怀疑。
3.努力 VS 天赋,努力会取得胜利
4.如果你喜欢某人的香水,请告诉他/她吧。
5.请每一天都告诉你的妈妈(或你的家人),你爱她吧!
6.每天早一点起床。
7.享受独处的时光
8.自尊,保持自信,同时保持谦逊。
9.少想别人怎么去看待自己,会活的快乐一些吧,为了自己,请这么做吧。
10.朋友,不用很多。如果只有一个深入心灵的朋友,也是美好的人生。
11.注意自己脑海中的小思绪,它可能会使你失落或者跌倒。
12.不要过于的追求与沉迷在性爱之中。
13.不要成为物质享乐主义者了。
14.请不要对任何人抱有期望。
15.请重复做第5条吧。
(回答者1的作者是:Othman AL-Khawaja。这个答案的英文原文贴在下方,有部分没有采用与翻译,因为比较通俗,因此在此说明备注。)

提问2:智慧(wise)、聪明(intelligent)、机灵(clever)之间的区别是什么呢?

回答者2:请问你能解答“1+1= ?”这个问题吗?

聪明先生(Mr. Intelligent)答道:当然可以,答案是2.小事一桩,我有100种方式证明给你看。(开始把答案和证明写出来)

机灵先生(Mr. Clever)答道:答案是2,如果你想知道为什么,我很乐意介绍我的朋友“聪明先生”,他会用100种方式证明给你看。

智慧先生(Mr. Wise)(他想到自己并不需要去解答这个问题<从他个人的情形来想>,因此只是简单的离开了。)

聪明先生(Mr. Intelligent)用他自己的所拥有的能力来解决问题。

机灵先生(Mr. Clever)用他身边所拥有的资源来解决问题。

智慧先生(Mr. Wise)选择正确的问题来解决(取决于他自己所处的情形(situation))

你,可以拥有他们三人的优秀品质。

(回答者2的作者是:Dylan Woon)

问题1(英文):What are the lessons people most often learn too late in life?

回答1(英文):Othman AL-Khawaja, Execution Manager at Mental Links Foundation

Don’t have trust in people; most of people who over trust, learn not to do that in the hard way .

Don’t be overly kind with people; people deal with over kind people with suspicion .

Before watching any movie, search on it on “IMDb”. if it was rated under ’6’ , don’t watch it .

Hard worker vs talented; hard worker wins.

If you liked somebody’s perfume, tell him/her .

For men , take care of your shoes and perfume, more than your clothes.

For women, take care of your clothes, more than perfume.

All the elders wish they spent more time with their beloved ones , don’t let yourself regret that one.

Tell your mom that you love her, every single day.

Wake up early.

Spend time with yourself.

Build a high self esteem, and be humble .

The less you care of what people think, the more you live happy.

having a fewer friends allows you to have deeper friendships.

Take care of your thoughts, it may crush you down.

Stop chasing and impressing the opposite sex (or the same sex).

Don’t be materialistic.

Expect nothing from anyone.

Don’t only learn from success stories, learn from failure stories “why did they fail’? Find it and learn from it.

Do point number 9.

问题2(英文)What is the difference between being wise, intelligent, and clever?

回答2(英文)Can you solve “1 + 1 = x”?

Mr. Intelligent: Sure, why not? It’s 2. Piece of cake. I have a hundred ways to prove it to you. Let me show you all of them. *starts writing and drawing on the board*

Mr. Clever: It’s 2. If you want to understand why, I’ll gladly bring you to my friend, Mr. Intelligent. He’ll prove it to you using a hundred ways.

Mr. Wise: He understands that he has no need to solve this question (according to his personal situation) and simply moves on.

An intelligent person utilizes his mental capacity to solve problems.

A clever person uses resources around him to solve problems.

A wise man picks the right problem according to his personal situation.

You can have a combination of these qualities.